My advice would be to have a consultation with no less than 4 attorneys. The big guys you hear on the radio and personal recommendations. If you don't feel a real conviction that your doing the right thing from them when you tell your story cross them off the list.
After that make the best choice you can (I believe in divine inspiration).
Not only does it help you make the most informed decision possible but if the Brother in law shows up to court with a kick-butt attorney you already consulted with you control the cards if you want to force him to cease representation of him due to.conflict.
Any opportunity she can get to show that she is the reasonable and rational one should be taken. No matter what dont start slinging mud back. Ide rather loose everything and keep my soul than win through dirty tricks and lies.
Ymmv... I'm still going through it so I have a limited perspective.
After that make the best choice you can (I believe in divine inspiration).
Not only does it help you make the most informed decision possible but if the Brother in law shows up to court with a kick-butt attorney you already consulted with you control the cards if you want to force him to cease representation of him due to.conflict.
Any opportunity she can get to show that she is the reasonable and rational one should be taken. No matter what dont start slinging mud back. Ide rather loose everything and keep my soul than win through dirty tricks and lies.
Ymmv... I'm still going through it so I have a limited perspective.