It's not kinetic energy that determines recoil, it's velocity times bullet weight, or in other words what is called the Power Factor. Assuming the same gun weight and powder weight (just to keep those variables constant), and using the muzzle velocity and bullet weight of your example,
130 X 1410 = 183,300
158 X 1240 = 195,920
So the 158gr @ 1240 is going to have about 7% more recoil than the 130gr @ 1410. Of course the weight of the propellant and pressure of the load influence recoil as well (sometimes a lot), but the Power Factor is a quick way to compare recoil of various loads.
(OK, for you physics people, I recognize that mass and weight are really different items, but I'm not making this that complicated.)
130 X 1410 = 183,300
158 X 1240 = 195,920
So the 158gr @ 1240 is going to have about 7% more recoil than the 130gr @ 1410. Of course the weight of the propellant and pressure of the load influence recoil as well (sometimes a lot), but the Power Factor is a quick way to compare recoil of various loads.
(OK, for you physics people, I recognize that mass and weight are really different items, but I'm not making this that complicated.)